Not a perfect father?
You’re in the right place.
This is a place where honest dads learn from real stories of success, failure, and everything in between.
Your Growth Journey
Every dad learns and grows a bit differently. Some guys want to join a public group and ask questions. Others want to have a guided process with an experienced father and coach.
Know where you want to go, but don't know how to get there?
Unhealthy Masculinity
We were taught to keep our questions, emotions, and fears stuffed away. But how has that been going for us? Let's rediscover what healthy masculinity looks like together.
There, but Not Really
If our fathers were in our lives, they may have been there physically, but detached and distant. So many of us never learned what it felt like to emotionally connect with our dads. We want a real connection with our kids, but we weren't modeled how to create it.
Outdated Map
You know how your dad parented…and you know there’s no way you’re doing the same thing. But what are the new ways? Do they even work? How does it feel to parent without fear and shame? This is uncharted territorty for most.
Do I Have What it Takes?
The weight of expectations on dads is a lot more than what was expected in past generations. Regardless of family system, many of us have never learned how to lead ourselves…much less our kids and families. The most cruel part is that it's the people closest to us who pay the price for our own lack of development.
But there is good news...
If you're here, you want to be a better dad. At worst it means that you know something needs to change.
You don’t have to keep driving in circles, wondering why all of the effort ‘to change’ isn’t getting you anywhere.
There are dads asking your same questions and carrying many of the same burdens. In 'us' you can find answers to your questions, partnership in the journey, and a reminder that you are not alone. There are no shortcuts to wisdom, but learning from other dads is certainly going to help you get there faster.
And even though you may still feel lost or like you have nothing to offer…your experience, your questions, your failures all have significant value for other dads.
That’s the whole idea: every dad has something to learn, and something to teach.